yaps
second yap
I read Seneca's letters to Lucius and it's good. He said to pray aloud if you're religious, as what God(s) hears matters more than what others hear. I do agree, I think.
first yap
it's terrible! but i will get better at writing hopefully
If you are in a situation where you have to share a common shower room with other people, like being in a campsite, know that there are many, many ways someone may interpret a queue! Now before you think things it is important to know that I'm talking about showers that are separated from each other. But let's start the yap. In my case there were:
a man with two or three kids
a muslim woman with a hijab
a girl around by age
some other people who came later.
So I came and waited the queue, and the muslim woman showed up (I was 1st), then someone walked out of the disabled people's shower (looking not disabled). I didn't want to go in there since I was rather intimidated by the woman and the others in the room, but I didn't want to offer it to her either since she could (prolly not but still) take it as an insult. She was behind in line but waited separately next to the guy with the kids (he also came later), likely because she didn't want to block the door. So the disabled shower was empty but the muslim realised it and took it. Next guy comes out of the women's shower and I am going there too so the dude with the kids tells me it's womens. Another woman takes it. So finally, after more waiting, the men's shower is available and I go in there without offering it to the man with the kids, who are asking him, when can they go, standing opposite me. But by now I have missed 2 opportunities to take the shower and lightly embarassed myself, so i didn't care.